Are you Battle Tested? There is a War going on every day!

I was not in the military, and I have not fought a physical war for a country. However, I have the uttermost respect for those who have, and all those who are currently serving.

However, did you know there is a war going on every day, 24 hrs a day, 7 days a week, 365 days a year? Have you been Battle Tested? Do you have a Battle Buddy? Do you know what a Battle Buddy is?

As a man, I can say I have been Battled Tested Physically, Spiritually and Mentally. I have been in physical fights, and I have had to defend myself an others. I was a rather skinny and tall lad growing up. I may have weighted 145 lbs when I graduated high school and stood six foot . I went to what was called a Middle to Lower Class Blue Collar town. I was told later that it was a “tough neighborhood” and a “tough school”. It puzzled me at the time as I never considered myself middle class, lower middle class, or poor. At that age, I thought most people lived as we did, and several fights a week at school was normal. I had a good roof over my head, always had food on the table, and amazing friends that are still friends to this day. However, I did have to learn to take care of myself and others that I loved, quickly. I refused to be a victim, but a victor. So I trained hard and often to be able to defend myself, and those I loved. However, I also learned to use my brain and words well, proactively, and effectively. I learned to “get along”, make friends easy, communicate in a way not only most others of all classes or cliques understood, but to deflect or calm down animosity, or conflict. I became more of a peace maker in an effort for all to get along without the need of physical altercations or violence.

Learning and knowing how to defend yourself and others is also biblical.

“From the days of John the Baptist until now the kingdom of heaven suffers violence, and violent men take it by force.” Matthew 11:12

“Blessed be the Lord, my rock, who trains my hands for war, and my fingers for battle;” — Psalm 144:1

“He said to them, “But now if you have a purse, take it, and also a bag; and if you don’t have a sword, sell your cloak and buy one.” — Luke 22:26

“When I saw their fear, I rose and spoke to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people: “Do not be afraid of them; remember the Lord who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives and your houses.” — Nehemiah 4:14

“But if anyone does not provide for his own, and especially for those of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” — 1 Timothy 5:8

“When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are safe” — Luke 11:21

Let’s talk about Mental War. If you have ever been around a toxic person, or let’s say a bully, unkind, harsh and malicious words are spoken. Let’s say you are in a relationship and the person you are dating or even married too is verbally abusive. Let’s say you are around so called “friends” and all they do is speak against you, or about you behind your back. They are not encouraging or inspirational, they are rather negative or harsh. Or lets say you are too hard on yourself, over taxing yourself, and taking set backs or failures too personally. Let’s say you dwell on the negative, become pessimistic, seeing every challenge as impossible, then become filled with anxiety and depression. All of this is a Mental Battle, and a Mental War.

It is biblical to identify this mental war, take captive your thoughts, and work well to change your way of thinking as well as distance yourself, or remove yourself, from toxic people:

“We demolish arguments and every pretension that sets itself up against the knowledge of God, and we take captive every thought to make it obedient to Christ.” — 2 Corinthians 10:5

“Do not be deceived: “Bad company ruins good morals.” — 1 Corinthians 15:33

“I appeal to you, brothers, to watch out for those who cause divisions and create obstacles contrary to the doctrine that you have been taught; avoid them. For such persons do not serve our Lord Christ, but their own appetites, and by smooth talk and flattery they deceive the hearts of the naive.” — Romans 16:17–18

“Make no friendship with a man given to anger, nor go with a wrathful man, lest you learn his ways and entangle yourself in a snare.” — Proverbs 22:24–25

“Pleasant words are a honeycomb, Sweet to the soul and healing to the bones.” — Proverbs 16:24

“Set your mind on the things above, not on the things that are on earth.” — Colossians 3:2

“and keep a good conscience so that in the thing in which you are slandered, those who revile your good behavior in Christ will be put to shame.” — 1 Peter 3:16

“rejoicing in hope, persevering in tribulation, devoted to prayer,” — Romans 12:12

“Rejoice in the Lord always; again I will say, rejoice!” — Philippians 4:4

Let’s talk about Spiritual War. This is a battle that has been raging since the Fall of Man, well even since the expulsion of Satan for that matter.

“For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places.” — Ephesians 6:1

There is an enemy, the advisory, lucifer, whom seeks to devour and destroy. He is a Master Manipulator, Deceiver, and War Strategist who wants to consume the souls of humanity to get at God for God’s beloved Creation. Satan knows we have a free will, and he seeks to capitalize on that free will. Yes, if angels walked and walks among us, there will be the advisory and his demons too.

“The thief comes only to steal and kill and destroy. I came that they may have life and have it abundantly.” — John 10:10

“Be sober-minded; be watchful. Your adversary the devil prowls around like a roaring lion, seeking someone to devour.” — 1 Peter 5:8

This is where I intended to invest the majority of my time with this devotional on the Spiritual Battle, and ask, “Have you been Battle Tested, do you have a Battle Buddy, and how do you defend yourself against an enemy that you may not be able to physically see? Or if it is in the form of a physical presence, how do you handle that?”

First of all you were Battle Tested the first time you were tempted away from the things of God. How did you weather that battle? How did you weather the following battles? How do you weather future battles?

The bible is rather clear in this area. The Christian common sense is to be in the Word and Pray Daily. I would also add listen to inspirational music and be cautious what your eyes see, and your ears hear, and partake in Fasting. There is also something called, “The Full Armor of God”

“Finally, be strong in the Lord and in the strength of his might. Put on the whole armor of God, that you may be able to stand against the schemes of the devil. For we do not wrestle against flesh and blood, but against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places. Therefore take up the whole armor of God, that you may be able to withstand in the evil day, and having done all, to stand firm. Stand therefore, having fastened on the belt of truth, and having put on the breastplate of righteousness, and, as shoes for your feet, having put on the readiness given by the gospel of peace. In all circumstances take up the shield of faith, with which you can extinguish all the flaming darts of the evil one; and take the helmet of salvation, and the sword of the Spirit, which is the word of God, praying at all times in the Spirit, with all prayer and supplication. To that end, keep alert with all perseverance, making supplication for all the saints, and also for me, that words may be given to me in opening my mouth boldly to proclaim the mystery of the gospel, for which I am an ambassador in chains, that I may declare it boldly, as I ought to speak.” — Ephesians 6:10–20

We were created by Father God Almighty with a natural instinct to typically determine what may be harmful, or not, which also includes what is wrong, and right. It is the enemy whom seeks to convince and manipulate us otherwise just as the serpent said to Eve, “surely you will not die” Genesis 3:4

The best way is to, identify the evil and wickedness, and rebuke it in Jesus name.

“Submit yourselves therefore to God. Resist the devil, and he will flee from you.” — James 4:7

In the military people are trained very well in hand to hand combat as well as with weapons. In fact the drill sergeants tend to teach that their rifle becomes a part of them, and they are to keep it well cleaned, in excellent operational condition, and always be with them. If we are all in a Spiritual Battle why would we not have a Spiritual Weapons and Armor with us, cleaned, polished, operable, and ready?

Would you go to war without your sword or rifle? Then why would you be without the bible in a Spiritual Battle? Especially in church or a bible study. You do not have to carry around a 6 inch thick King James Study Bible, as bibles are made in just about any size, and many translations. In fact, there are free bible apps for the smartphone which most everyone has with them most of the time.

Would you go to war, and not be trained well? Why then would you not go to church to gather with others to learn, serve, worship, repent, get equipped, and go out? Why would you not seek after someone that is more trained, well versed, wise, and learn from them?

If the enemy seems overwhelming and much stronger than you are, would you go into battle alone? Then in this ongoing Spiritual Battle, why wouldn’t you get read up, prayed up, and feed the Holy Spirit to go with you? in addition to having a Battle Buddy you know, trust, and admire for their faith, to battle with you and have your six?

In closing, we all have been Battle Tested, but how well did we do in the past battles, the present battles, and are going to do in the future battles, may be the question. Battle Tested can make you stronger and refine you like gold if you let it.

“In this you rejoice, though now for a little while, if necessary, you have been grieved by various trials, so that the tested genuineness of your faith — more precious than gold that perishes though it is tested by fire — may be found to result in praise and glory and honor at the revelation of Jesus Christ.” — 1 Peter 1:6–7

We all need to put on the Full Armor of God (Ephesians 6:10–20), and have a Battle Buddy whom we trust, whom is wise in the Lord.

“Two are better off than one, because together they can work more effectively. If one of them falls down, the other can help him up. But if someone is alone and falls, it’s just too bad, because there is no one to help him. If it is cold, two can sleep together and stay warm, but how can you keep warm by yourself? Two people can resist an attack that would defeat one person alone. A rope made of three cords is hard to break.” — Ecclesiastes 4:9–12

So get out there and make it a great day. Because you truly have a choice in making it a great day. You can take captive of your thoughts to overcome negativity, pessimism, fear, and doubt. You can choose the right relationships and distance yourself from the bad ones. You can win against the rulers, against the authorities, against the cosmic powers over this present darkness, against the spiritual forces of evil in the heavenly places by being in the Word, Praying, Fasting while putting on the Full Armor of God. Besides we know Who wins, and if you are saved, you are already on the Winning Team.

Enjoy this gift of life and launch each day with Purpose, navigate with Principles, and explore with Passion!

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Eagles don’t take flight lessons from chickens!

I am probably going to “ruffle some feathers” with this post. May I ask you a question? Where do you go for advice, recommendations, and wisdom?

Do you watch the Main Stream Media for real news and facts? Do you seek truth, or put your mind on auto-pilot while you sit in front of your TV, laptop, or smartphone?

Who is your Preacher? Is your Pastor’s messages biblically aligned, or more slanted with opinion or theatrics?

How about the people in your life? How about your closest 5 friends? Do you truly know them, who they are, what they are about and to whom they serve? Did you know experts say that you become the average of your 5 closest friends. Should you not, then, be choosing wisely?

I have been a man whom has thirsted after knowledge for as long as I can remember. I love learning, obtaining knowledge, and expanding my understanding. I even have a saying when people ask me, “How are you?” My often reply is, “Learning and serving.” Because I believe if you are not learning and serving, you are not truly living.

But where do I go for knowledge, and wisdom? Sound advice, and honest recommendations? Who is it that I serve and why? I am a seeker of truth. Fact over fiction. Things that can be verified and validated. I do not accept or take advice, recommendations from fools, fake “friends”, nor leaders, teachers or preachers that do not align with the bible.

If I want to enhance my health, and increase my physical strength, I do not go to an obese person that rarely leaves their couch.

I do not absorb Godly wisdom from a Pastor or Preacher that is contrary 6 days a week than he is on Sunday, and neither quotes scripture from the bible, or his words are not aligned with the Word of God.

My body, soul, and mind cannot follow a leader that is not courageous, and walks the walk that he talks. Eagles cannot grow, mature, and don’t take flight lessons from chickens.

What say you?

The fear of the LORD is the beginning of knowledge, but fools despise wisdom and instruction.” — Proverbs 1:7

Who is wise and understanding among you? Let them show it by their good life, by deeds done in the humility that comes from wisdom.” — James 3:13

Whoever walks with the wise becomes wise, but the companion of fools will suffer harm.” — Proverbs 13:20

Is not wisdom found among the aged? Does not long life bring understanding?” — Job 12:12

For the LORD gives wisdom; from his mouth come knowledge and understanding.” — Proverbs 2:6

When pride comes, then comes disgrace, but with humility comes wisdom.” — Proverbs 11:2

The one who gets wisdom loves life; the one who cherishes understanding will soon prosper.” — Proverbs 19:8

The mouths of the righteous utter wisdom, and their tongues speak what is just.” — Psalm 37:30

Be very careful, then, how you live — not as unwise but as wise, making the most of every opportunity, because the days are evil.” — Ephesians 5:15–16

A wise son heeds his father’s instruction, but a mocker does not respond to rebukes.” — Proverbs 13:1

If any of you lacks wisdom, you should ask God, who gives generously to all without finding fault, and it will be given to you.” — James 1:5

Fools give full vent to their rage, but the wise bring calm in the end.” — Proverbs 29:11

Mockers resent correction, so they avoid the wise.” — Proverbs 15:12

Listen to advice and accept discipline, and at the end you will be counted among the wise.” — Proverbs 19:20

Blessed are those who find wisdom, those who gain understanding,” — Proverbs 3:13

Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men,be strong” — 1 Corinthians 16:13

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“Honest to a fault”?

I have been called “honest to a fault.” At first I thought how could someone be honest to a fault? I then thought maybe it has happened where people asked me the truth about something in which I knew to be truth, & they didn’t like the answer. However, isn’t that their fault? Then I think of the times I have been passed up for a promotion, not included in certain groups or organizations, not invited to outings because of my faith, or for being a conservative. I then also think of the times when I’ve made mistakes, admitted to them, asked for others forgiveness; while people asked “why” I did that, “they would have never known”. Times I have returned money when I was over paid, such as an ATM spewing out 10x what I requested and when I went inside and returned it, the bank teller thanked me and said that they would have never found the error. When I share real life examples like this, I’ve been told I am “honest to a fault”.

As I have said before, I was taught honesty and integrity at a very young age. My mama taught me, (now I here the song, “Simple Man” by Lynyrd Skynyrd playing in the background. ; ) ), that a man is only as good as his word. His word is his bond, that no one can take integrity away from you, but you, yourself. To this day, I cannot remember a time either of my parents have ever lied to me, and when I asked them tough questions at an age I could digest it, they told me the bold truth, even if that truth was tough to handle, or accept.

I confess, that I have lost friends, and other relationships by being honest, or speaking truth. Whether the truth when someone asks me directly, or striving to live out my faith. Yes, I am at fault for that. So I guess I am “honest to a fault.” However, it does sadden me that someone would unfriend me, talk badly about me behind my back, or despise me, or seek to cause me financial or physical harm for being honest and speaking the truth. I was taught honesty and integrity is a virtuous character trait. That it is noble and honorable. I was also taught by reading the bible that people will turn from the truth, and also despise such things, especially as we approach nearer to end times. Not saying these are “The End Times”. However, these have certainly been unprecedented times.

Those that have invested enough time to read to this point, I thank you for allowing me to open up a bit, and be vulnerable on this medium. I do wish to express that if anything I have said, or done has offended you, that I am sorry only that it is not my intent to hurt anyone. Never has, never will. However, with all my imperfections as I am still a process in work by my Creator; I do know who I am, what I am about, and to Whom I serve. I realize the truth is not always easy to swallow. Through my life much truth was hard for me too. However, it doesn’t change the fact that the truth is the truth. Just because you don’t believe it, or want to believe it, does not make it untrue. I also believe a man should take a stand for what is true, just, moral and for justice, not just for themselves, but for those who cannot stand for themselves.

In closing, I wish to share something with you from my many years on this earth, studies, education, and leading a variety of ministries, in which a good portion has been men’s ministries. I share this as I have discovered some, if not many, people question what it is to be a man in today’s society. I know that teenage boys seem to hunger for what it is to be a man, not just because I have taught boys Sunday school classes from 1st grade to high school, nor that I have been asked to be a speaker at such events, it is the fact I have both a teenage son, as well as a teenage daughter. What I wish to share with you is at the link below. I title it, “The Ten Marks of a Good Man”. These Marks are what I strive to live out each day, not just in words, but in actions and deeds. It is also the Marks I teach my teenage son. Take a continued read, share your thoughts, comments, and share it out if you like. And if you want to know the truth of anything I know as truth, simply ask me. Thank you. May God bless you, and yours. Shalom.

The Ten Marks of a Good Man

It seems many boys strive to seek their masculine identity starting around as early as the age of 10. If they do not find it at home, they will find it somewhere, in something, or someone. So as a man, a father, a soul that desires to chase the “Beautiful Outlaw in Jesus Christ think some great attributes of a good male role model? In other words, what do I ardently believe, from my years on this earth, think the Marks of a Great Man are? I agree with much of what Author John Eldredge and the leader and founder of Ransomed Heart Ministries, shares in many of his books. However, I am going to list my opinion, perspective and thoughts in a Top 10:

  1. A Good Man is a man of his word. His word is his bond. He exudes integrity in all that he says and does. “The integrity of the upright guides them, but the unfaithful are destroyed by their duplicity.” — Proverbs 11:3. “The LORD detests lying lips, but he delights in people who are trustworthy.” — Proverbs 12:22.
  2. A Good Man is not a harmless man, a good man is a very dangerous man that has it all under voluntary control. “Blessed be the Lord, my rock, who trains my hands for war, and my fingers for battle;” — Psalm 144:1. “When a strong man, fully armed, guards his own palace, his goods are safe” — Luke 11:21. “When I saw their fear, I rose and spoke to the nobles, the officials and the rest of the people: “Do not be afraid of them; remember the Lord who is great and awesome, and fight for your brothers, your sons, your daughters, your wives and your houses.” — Nehemiah 4:14
  3. A Good Man loves his wife and children in words, actions and deed. “Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ loved the church and gave himself up for her.” — Ephesians 5:25. “Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres. Love never fails.” — 1 Corinthians 13:4–8. “Let love be genuine. Abhor what is evil; hold fast to what is good.” — Romans 12:9
  4. A Good Man can admit where and when he was wrong, apologize and seek forgiveness with humility. “Whoever conceals his transgressions will not prosper, but he who confesses and forsakes them will obtain mercy.” Proverbs 28:13. “Therefore, confess your sins to one another and pray for one another, that you may be healed. The prayer of a righteous person has great power as it is working.” — James 5:16.
  5. A Good Man strives to learn from his mistakes and improve. “For the righteous falls seven times and rises again, but the wicked stumble in times of calamity” Proverbs 24:16. “Brothers, I do not consider that I have made it my own. But one thing I do: forgetting what lies behind and straining forward to what lies ahead,” — Philippines 3:13
  6. A Good Man takes a minority position for what is honorable, true, and right even if he has to stand alone. “Be strong and courageous. Do not fear or be in dread of them, for it is the Lord your God who goes with you. He will not leave you or forsake you.” — Deuteronomy 31:6
  7. A Good Man has a vision. He regularly sets goals, strives to achieve them. “May he give you the desire of your heart and make all your plans succeed.”- Psalm 20:4. “Where there is no vision, the people perish” — Proverbs 29:18. “To this you were called, because Christ suffered for you, leaving you an example, that you should follow in his steps.” — 1 Peter 2:21
  8. A Good Man is a provider and a protector. “But if anyone does not provide for his relatives, and especially for members of his household, he has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever.” — 1 Timothy 5:8
  9. A Good Man is a team player. He realizes to be the best he looks to not only a core team, a close and wise circle of influence, but thinks more of those around him, and the team, than he does himself only, by encouraging, inspiring and helping one another with accountability. “Iron sharpeneth iron; so a man sharpeneth the countenance of his friend.” — Proverbs 27:17. “A man of many companions may come to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother” — Proverbs 18:24
  10. A Good Man works and takes pride in what he does as it is good to work, no matter what job, career or position, he works hard as to the Lord and not unto mankind. He ardently pursues excellence in his work, at home, and whatever he lays his hands to, but not perfectionism. ““Whatever your hand finds to do, do it with your might, for there is no work or thought or knowledge or wisdom in Sheol, to which you are going” — Ecclesiastes 9:10. “Do not be slothful in zeal, be fervent in spirit, serve the Lord.” — Romans 12:11
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A veil…

It seems some, or many, in which I have witnessed are under this veil. They do not see clearly. It is as if they are seeing things through a filter. A filter contrary to truth & reality. You can tell these people the truth, you can show them the truth, you can even provide photos, videos, eye witness testimonials, yet they still do not either want to accept it, nor believe it. It is as if they have consumed lies for so long, it is the only reality or truth that they know, or want to believe. It is as if they are in this metaphoric slumber, unable to wake from a dream in which they have been led to believe.

In the bible it talks of such “clouded glass” and “veils” as well.

We don’t yet see things clearly. We’re squinting in a fog, peering through a mist. But it won’t be long before the weather clears and the sun shines bright! We’ll see it all then, see it all as clearly as God sees us, knowing him directly just as he knows us!” – 1 Corinthians 13:12 MSG

But when one turns to the Lord, the veil is removed.” – 2 Corinthians 3:16 ESV

But when one turns to the Lord, the veil is removed. Now the Lord is the Spirit, and where the Spirit of the Lord is, there is freedom. And we all, with unveiled face, beholding the glory of the Lord, are being transformed into the same image from one degree of glory to another. For this comes from the Lord who is the Spirit.” – 2 Corinthians 3:16-18 ESV

They are darkened in their understanding, alienated from the life of God because of the ignorance that is in them, due to their hardness of heart.” – Ephesians 4:18 ESV

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Choose Wisely My Friend…

I have lost count on the people I have heard about that have been betrayed, or emotionally hurt by other people, which includes friends, business partners, a spouse, and Christian leaders. Some have asked me how do you know if someone is reliable, honest, or not a “false prophet.” Well, first of all we all make mistakes and are capable of falling into an error of our ways. However, my typical recommendations come from my own experiences, knowledge, and, of course, the bible. Here is some of my advice and my recommendations:


Do not confuse obsession or chemistry for love. True love will persevere the test of time and adversity. Date a person of like faith, goals and passions.(“Be equally yoked”). Men look for a Proverbs 31 woman. Women look for a true man of faith, and virtue. However, what is love? (I now here the song by Haddaway, “What is love” ; D ). Do you want to know what love is? (now I hear the song by Foreigner, “I want to know what love is” ; D ). Well the bible does describe/define what love is in 1 Corinthians 13:4–7Love is patient, love is kind. It does not envy, it does not boast, it is not proud. It does not dishonor others, it is not self-seeking, it is not easily angered, it keeps no record of wrongs. Love does not delight in evil but rejoices with the truth. It always protects, always trusts, always hopes, always perseveres.”


It is said and known that you become the average of your 5 closest friends. If this is true, which I believe and know it to be true, I would choose wisely. You don’t need a certain number of friends, just a number of friends you can be certain of. Proverbs 12:26:The righteous choose their friends carefully, but the way of the wicked leads them astray.”, Proverbs 27:17:As iron sharpens iron, so a friend sharpens a friend.”, Proverbs 13:20: “Walk with the wise and become wise; associate with fools and get in trouble.”, Proverbs 18:24: “One who has unreliable friends soon comes to ruin, but there is a friend who sticks closer than a brother.


I have owned several business and have been involved in having “partners” in such endeavors. I have learned that you must treat a partnership in a near marriage fashion. What I mean about that is that the honesty, integrity, like mindedness, and passion similarities need to be present. And if you are not wise in your choices, it can be financially, emotionally, and mentally damaging similar to many divorces. If you can succeed in your goals and objectives without a Partnership, I would do it alone and eventually grow in to a S-Corp or C-Corp and then hire the talent you need to grow, and advance, and/or leverage a low interest loan that you can manage and pay back quickly.


The bible is rather clear of being careful of following unwise leadership, to identify and call out False Prophets. “Beware of false prophets, who come to you in sheep’s clothing but inwardly are ravenous wolves. You will recognize them by their fruits. Are grapes gathered from thorn bushes, or figs from thistles? So, every healthy tree bears good fruit, but the diseased tree bears bad fruit. A healthy tree cannot bear bad fruit, nor can a diseased tree bear good fruit. Every tree that does not bear good fruit is cut down and thrown into the fire. Thus you will recognize them by their fruits.” — Matthew 7:15–20. See also Deuteronomy 13.

So how do you do that? What are their “fruits”. In otherwise do they walk their talk? Are they consistent in their daily each day of the week as they are on Sunday, class, the boardroom, or from the pulpit? So what are these “fruits”, characteristics, or character traits? You may find an explanation of what is called “The Fruits of the Spirit” in this article: which are Love, Joy, Peace, Forbearance (Patience), Kindness, Goodness, Faithfulness, Gentleness, Self-Control.

In addition, if you attend a church that is not biblically sound, does not speak, teach the truths of the bible, then that is not a true church. Here is another summary of “7 signs” that you may want to consider if it may be time to address it, help to change it, or move on:

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Simply be authentic, real, genuine, love God, love people, and live on Mission.

Not all will agree with what I am about to post… I sincerely enjoy attending church & as a Christian I believe the Holy Spirit encourages us to do so. I never want to miss an opportunity to be in church. To assemble together, build into relationships, to worship, serve, learn, grow, get equipped & go out. I find it is also biblical.

However, a church was never mean to be a museum for saints, fancy artifacts, or expensive dramatic light shows. It is a hospital for sinners for healing, rehabilitation, repentance, recovery & growing in the name of Jesus. Besides the church is not a building, the church are the people & you can gather anywhere, whether in a building, on the street corner, on a motorcycle, or park bench. To any church out there that would ever turn away a soul because of appearance, finances, brokenness, addictions, alcoholism… is not a church, nor the church. You are doing it wrong, & need a true church. Remember, Christ re-named Simon to Peter, the rock, to whom He would build the church. Peter had flaws, made mistakes, he was human, just as all of us.

Keep in mind that no church is perfect and if you have been offended by someone in a church, welcome to the club, so have I. Honest people, with integrity, know they are fallible, and make error. This is another reason they attend, seek to improve, learn, grow, get equipped and go out.

However, words of advice and caution…If church leaders are per-occupied with numbers, money, a certain look, consistently speaking against other denominations, or always preaching a Prosperity Message & spending thousands to possibly millions on fancy dramatic shows, or costly buildings, while the congregation is suffering and there are homeless starving on the streets in their community, that is not about Christ, nor a true church, or the rock in which Christ spoke. If your focus is this way, you must be reading a different bible than I am.

Don’t get me wrong, I enjoy the entertainment side, contemporary music, and different “wrappers” of a church & how it is to be presented, especially in today’s time. However, a good church, and church message, must be biblically sound and Christ centered.

Simply preach the truth, even when it is hard, as there is a Heaven & a Hell. The truth must be spoken. Simply be authentic, real, genuine, love God, love people, and live on Mission. Keep the main thing the main thing. Plant the seeds, let the Holy Spirit help water it, and souls will be saved, lives changed, and your church will grow be it God’s will…

I also believe the “luke warm” spoken in the bible may be more about frauds, fakes, and posers. Be real, church people, God always knows your heart, intent and soul.

And before someone goes on a rant in a reply, I assure you I can provide plenty of scripture to support what I believe & know to be true.

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The top 10 Characteristics and Qualities of an Effective Christian Motorcycle Club

This article is a 10 part series on The top 10 Characteristics and Qualities of an Effective Christian Motorcycle Club. Today we start with part one with number one:

1. Biblically Sound and Christ Centered

If you are going to Prospect for or become a Full Patched Brother in a Christian Motorcycle Club, it must be Biblically Sound and Christ Centered. The priorities should be God first, then Family, Work, then Club. This is not to say that these lines may not blur at times as the men in your MC become like family, sometimes even more than family. A MC also takes work, however anything worth while takes work, and anything worthwhile is worth working for.

Biblically Sound in my opinion and perspective doesn’t mean denominational stressed. Meaning, that a good Christian MC should be non-denominational. From the leadership down to the Hangaround, a Christian MC should exude biblical principles in not just words, but actions and deeds. The bible should be and needs to be the final authority. It is the Word of God.

All Scripture is breathed out by God and profitable for teaching, for reproof, for correction, and for training in righteousness, that the man of God may be competent, equipped for every good work.” – 2 Timothy 3:16-17

As believers we are to be Christ centered. To be Christ centered we are to realize Christ is the head, the example on how we are to lead, serve and live.

And he put all things under his feet and gave him as head over all things to the church, which is his body, the fullness of him who fills all in all.” – Ephesians 1:22-23

I have been crucified with Christ. It is no longer I who live, but Christ who lives in me. And the life I now live in the flesh I live by faith in the Son of God, who loved me and gave himself for me.” – Galatians 2:20

In addition, I believe any good Christian MC should have a Mission Bible Verse, similar to what some believers call a “Live Verse”. A favorite bible verse that exemplifies the MC’s mission and purpose.

God has created us as believers to play a unique role in our lives for the Kingdom. We each have a destiny that will bring glory to God, share the grace and love of Christ, and extend the Kingdom of God. Understanding your unique destiny starts with reading the bible, understanding what it says about your purpose as one of God’s people. So it should be with a Christian MC.

This article is a 10 part series on The top 10 Characteristics and Qualities of an Effective Christian Motorcycle Club. Today we started with number one, tomorrow we start with number two, “Structure and Expectations“.

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Seek Approval or Affirmations…

Although I do not believe people should chase after the approval of mankind. I am an avid believer in Colossians 3:23, “Whatever you do, work at it with your whole being, for the Lord and not for men,” And overly desiring the praise of mankind can lead to vanity, envy, and often driven by ego. It can become a drive that leads to obsession and destruction. However, I do believe we all like sincere kudos, and the affirmations not just by people we love, respect, our earthly father, but by our Heavenly Father too. That is biblical as well. God did this audibly with Jesus, Matthew 3:17, “and behold, a voice from heaven said, “This is my beloved Son,[a] with whom I am well pleased.”. Words of Affirmation is also a Love Language in which people provide and people receive to demonstrate their love, grow, and thrive. Although we are not to chase approval, we should give and receive sincere affirmations in love. Hebrews 10:24, “And let us consider how to stir up one another to love and good works,”

If your children are doing well at anything, don’t hold back your affirmations upon them. Sincerely express them in words and actions. If your spouse does something that pleases you, let your spouse know. If a friend, or colleague, does something out of the way that is good, and honorable, please do not hold back sincere affirmations. This goes with just about anyone in person or online. If they share something, something wise, something profound, whether directed at you or not, let them know whether in actions or deeds, or simply smashing the like, or love button, and sharing it with others. And yes, by subscribing to their YouTube Channel or online blog.

These words and actions of affirmation is also sharing the light and salt to others. Matthew 5:16, “Let your light so shine before men, that they may see your good works, and glorify your Father which is in heaven.” It is also a demonstration on Whom you truly serve, John 13:35, “By this all people will know that you are my disciples, if you have love for one another.”

This type of love is good, and can be contagious. How about we all catch that? How about we make that go viral?

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“I don’t tell people what I’m doing on Tuesday because it is a personal decision.”

I don’t tell people what I’m doing on Tuesday because it is a personal decision.

I recently read a fairly well known pastor of a large church write this in an article. I have also read another from another very well know preacher say Christians should not vote all together this election. These are not new “sayings” among people, whether a Pastor, or layman.

However, I do not entirely agree with it, nearly at all. I am not saying I am wiser, nor more educated than those that take this stand. To each his or her own. However I do have a few years on me, with a variety of experiences, as well as education.

I made a profession of faith 38 years ago, fully surrendered to that faith & began serving in Ministries 30 years ago if that gives me any credibility. Granted I’ve seen more “cautious” church leaders on staff make this statement, and prefer little to no conflict or to offend others, especially a congregation. However, I am not a strong believer on that stance either. The Gospel was not meant to “not offend” someone, it is truth & some people cannot handle the truth. Conviction of sin, can rattle folks, whether in a church or out of a church. Jesus offended many, so much, it caused the “religious” of that time to demand his crucifixion.

Ironically this same Pastor that wrote, “I don’t tell people what I’m doing on Tuesday because it is a personal decision.” has no problem preaching “no sex before marriage” while drinking a bourbon, or cracking open a beer right on the church stage. Or delivering a message that our words “can bring life or death” from (Proverbs 18:21) while speaking vulgarities at a campsite, or speaking of sex and masturbation during a church service, without letting parents of young children know not to have them in the main church in the attendance of 100 to thousands. Or confidentially preaching and teaching that “Men taking a minority position, even if they have to stand alone”… and yet state he will not share to whom he is voting for on Tuesday because it is a “personal decision.”

Now, please do not get me wrong, I am not condemning this Pastor for “hypocrisy”, or casting judgment. I am no one’s judge, besides some One has that job, and I surely do not want it. I also confess that I enjoy the occasional sip of fine bourbon, an occasional good cigar and my language isn’t necessarily pristine. I am also not a Pastor of a large church, or small church. However, I strive to be consistent in my message, my teachings, and the way I live my life. I stumble and fail, but thankful for grace and mercy God extends. To where I can ask for forgiveness, repent, learn, & strive to grow & improve each new day.

I believe the bible is the Word of God. All of it. The Old and New Testament. I believe we are to strive to be the Salt & the Light. To strive and do what we teach and preach. To not be double minded. (James 1:8) Do I fail? Do we fail? Yes. We all fail. However, my ego is not so large not to admit where I was wrong, ask for forgiveness, repent, learn from it, try to make it right, grow and improve.

I am also getting tired of Church Leaders and other Christians saying that Jesus didn’t get involved in politics, so we shouldn’t either. I want someone to show me where Jesus commanded not to be involved in politics, or be confident in whom they are voting for, and why? I am not absolutely sure those who state these things like these pastors wrote in their articles take the whole bible in it’s entirety in context. God certainly advised who should be King, and is King on earth and in Heaven. Heaven was also involved in politics before the creation of man. Satan arose to challenge God, gathering support of other angels, and of course lost.

In being the salt and light; being courageous and taking a stand. To do what is right and moral, even if is not popular, among the majority, even if you have to stand alone, should involve to whom you are voting, with confidence, brave and proud enough to share as to why, and encourage others to do the same, with, and in love. Never should politics cause caustic arguments, tearing down others, certainly not physical violence. We should, as mature Christian adults, be able to agree to disagree with grace and humility, and still love one another if we are not casting our vote for the same candidate.

What I prefer to see is pastor’s to stop with the “tippy-toe” words, theatrics, watered down messages, as not to offend the masses. Simply speak the truth, confidently, in love, even if that love has to be tough, and may offend some one, or many. After many seasons on this earth, I believe the reason things have gotten so worse, or to this level, is that people have taken God out of as many things as possible. To try to please as many as possible, especially those with the loudest mouths. Many have left their First Love in Christ, or distanced themselves out of fear of ridicule, or of “offending” some one. (Remember is written in Romans 1:16, “For I am not ashamed of the gospel, for it is the power of God for salvation to everyone who believes, to the Jew first and also to the Greek.”) Many churches have gotten soft, prefer to be entertainers, than feeding the sheep the truth. They have walked away from keeping the main thing the main thing to instead seek to entertain, build large buildings, have the best tech, and the highest numbers of attendance. If we want healing in this land. If we want revival, and the hearts of America to turn back to their First Love. For divisiveness to diminish, souls saved, morality increased, these 3 bible verses are a great way to begin:

if my people who are called by my name humble themselves, and pray and seek my face and turn from their wicked ways, then I will hear from heaven and will forgive their sin and heal their land.” — 2 Chronicles 7:14

But seek first the kingdom of God and his righteousness, and all these things will be added to you.” — Matthew 6:33

For the time is coming when people will not endure sound[a] teaching, but having itching ears they will accumulate for themselves teachers to suit their own passions,” — Timothy 4:3

If any of this offends you, that is not my problem. Scroll on, and move on. That is you and your emotional ability or level of EQ to deal with it. I speak what I believe is truth, with wisdom, and seek to do it in love, even if that love has to be tough. If you have a problem to where it nearly enrages you, maybe you need to adult up, or “man up.”

Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” — 1 Corinthians 16:13

And if voting to you is a “personal decision” don’t come complaining when your government takes 60% of your income for taxes, personal. Do not take it personal when your taxes pay for abortions up to birth. Don’t take it personal when your government dictates when and where you work, go to church, what you may wear out in public, or speak in public or online…. Don’t take it personal when your freedoms and liberties diminish and your country which was built on freedom and the lives that were scarified to create it, defend and protect it.

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I believe real men can take a minority position, and should if it is just, moral, sound.

Courage, resilience, perseverance, diligence, determination are all admirable words, but how many truly understand them or apply them. As I type this post which many also appear on my blog, it may sound brave to type it out and write this, but the effort of my fingers is minor, real courage comes from living it. Have you took a stand in what you truly believe is right, moral and sound, even if you stand alone? Oh it may be easy if a large crowd or even a “mob” goes along with you, but what if you are in the minority? I believe real men can take a minority position, and should if it is just, moral, sound.

Personally I have experienced being alone in my perspective, and what I truly believed was just, moral and sound and it has cost me. No, these were not unlawful acts, they were not acts of malice, against established rules or regulations, nor of inappropriate judgement.

I have been passed up for promotions to the point I was told I didn’t get the job because of my faith, or I didn’t go along with certain actions and activities that were against my convictions within my faith.

Even within “Christian” circles, I even told by an “church leader” that I was too much of a “Wild Card” because, I spoke truth one to one even though I followed Matthew 18:15-18. Or that I spoke too boldly, or was called to lead without this particular’s leader’s knowledge. Even though I have led countless ministries, been to seminary, and the Mission Field. I was then asked if I thought I was Jesus. My answer was, certainly not, but aren’t we all to strive to live and lead like Jesus, and He was considered an outlaw by the “religious” of that time. Later within that same church, a friend was asked to dismiss himself from a service because he said “amen” too often to a message and that he may be being “too religious” for the rest of the attendees. I no longer attend or support that “church.”

I have been told by a leader of a Christian organization that I should “go with the flow” even though it was against the guidelines, sound doctrine, or against biblical principles. I answered, Jesus was not one to “go with the flow” that was against His Father’s business. I was labeled a “rebel”.

I have been told by other entities to accept certain concepts or movements that were against family values, and constitutional rights as to please the masses. I said no, that I cannot rightly support that.

I have been threatened to accept and support things, activities or movements that go against my faith, family values, and sanctity of life or face expulsion, or possible termination. I said no, that I cannot rightly support that. I was never promoted again.
I was told by a “church” that mental illness is due to lack or faith or demonic possession. I spoke openly, with authority of education in the field, and the bible, that was wrong and that he just offended, and insulted the faith of, on average, 20% of his congregation.
I have had a church leader ask me to help remove a homeless person that smelled of liquor from the church. I said, “no”, let’s feed him, get him a hotel room, and connect him with some social services.

I have heard preachers preach that most all other regions and denominations are not of God and should not be accepted. I did not agree, and was told, “tough”, find another church.

I have been denied passages on a trip even though I purchased a ticket because I was “too Christian”, or asked to move to another table in an establishment because my family and I prayer before our meals.

I have been asked to remove rings, and necklaces because they were “too religious” or “not appropriate” or asked to remove a Motorcycle Club vest because it was “gang oriented” even though it was a Christian Motorcycle Club. In all instances I did not remove these items, an at one point escorted off the premises.

The list goes on…

You may be saying this can’t be, some of this must be when you were no in America, or on the Mission Field in a foreign country. Nope, this is all while residing in the USA.
The thing is that something you ardently believe in may cost you something. It may cost you a promotion. It may cost you money. It may cost you friends and yes, even family. In the bible, it cost almost every believer example something, and for some it cost them their lives.

As for me, I am willing to take a stand, even if I have to stand alone, because as for me and my house we will serve the Lord, as our work is unto the Lord and not man. (Joshua 24:15, Colossians 3:23-24)

Yes, I believe real men can, and should take a minority position for what they ardently believe in. To stand for what is true, moral and sound. It may not be easy, it may not be “fun”, it may cost a man something, but what does it truly cost in the big picture? What does it cost in the scope of eternity? What will it cost our children and their children if we do not stand?

Take hold of Courage, demonstrate bravery, do not only leave a legacy, live it.

“Be watchful, stand firm in the faith, act like men, be strong.” 1 Corinthians 16:13

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